I’m a former Borders customer and past member of the now defunct company’s Rewards Perks program. While I freely admit to moving a lot of my business to Amazon over the years, I was sorry to see Borders go.

Maybe it’s nostalgia, but every once in a while I like to walk into a book store, stroll the aisles, and leisurely look for a title or two I may have missed. Just like reading a physical book has a tactile advantage over an e-reader, I also think a physical store has a sensory advantage over a virtual storefront—which for me, unfortunately, ultimately gets trumped by the superior selection and lower prices of an Amazon.

But back to Border’s. When the pieces of the company were sold off, Barnes & Nobel made an important purchase that went beyond the chain’s physical inventory—they bought Borders’ customer contact info and importantly, their purchase history, giving them the opportunity to send out personally relevant communications.

The wooing has begun, as B & N is now attempting to turn me from a qualified prospect to a customer. They’ve sent me a few e-mails to date and while I think my scant recent personal history prevents them from sending truly relevant messages, I do appreciate their efforts.

From a communications perspective, I think they’ve made a smart progression from showing sympathy over the loss of Borders, to being transparent when revealing the use of my Borders’ customer data, to being justifiably “retail-y” as they seek my business. See the messaging sequence below:

October 1: Sympathy Over the Break-Up

Dear Borders Customer,

My name is William Lynch, CEO of Barnes & Noble, and I’m writing to you today on behalf of the entire B&N team to make you aware of important information regarding your Borders account. First of all let me say Barnes & Noble uniquely appreciates the importance bookstores play within local communities, and we’re very sorry your Borders store closed.

October 15: Honesty and Transparency

Dear Borders Customer,

As a reminder, on September 30, 2011 Barnes & Noble acquired the Borders customer list. The transferred personally identifiable information in the customer list includes customer e-mail addresses and purchase history. No credit card data was transferred. If you would like to opt out of having your customer data transferred, please go to www.bn.com/borders by November 2, 2011.

November 7: Asking me out on a first date.
Subject line: Let’s get to know each other, starting right now.

You’ll always be welcome here. Nothing says welcome like an extra 30% off your first purchase at Barnes & Noble.

November 16: Attempt at a second date.

Subject line: A convenient 40% off at the always convenient BN.com

Your nearest Barnes & Nobel is open 24/7—at BN.com. Take an Extra 40%off one item.

I think Barnes & Noble is in a tough spot and agree with many that they’ll be the next domino to fall in the radically changing book industry. That said, I do think they’re doing a good job trying to convert prized prospects—former Borders customers like me—to the B & N fold. At least, they’re going down swinging.

Three men walk into a bar. Sorry, that’s the lead-in to an old Irish joke. In this case, three practitioners of Loyalty Marketing (people who actually create brand loyalty for a living) are on their way to a Florida Marlins game after the conclusion of Loyalty Expo 2009.

Having no idea of the conversation that would ensue, I commented that I did something surprising the weekend before, pay a $25 membership fee to join the Barnes & Noble Member Program. “I got half the annual fee back in one purchase” was my justification.  I also knew that with purchases pending to buy the kid’s summer reading books,  it wouldn’t be long before I recovered the entire fee. Add to that the convenient location of B&N to my house and it was an easy decision.

My friend riding shotgun retorted, “I’d never pay a fee because Borders lets you register for free and I can wait for those 40% off coupons they send by email”.

Not to be left out, our backseat companion added “I always buy my books from Amazon because they have the best prices, but I always wait until my order is big enough to get the free shipping“.

Suddenly we had a mini-focus group at work in a car full of Bibliophiles. Who knew that Loyalty Marketers were such avid readers? More importantly, I realized just how challenging it is to create a value proposition that attracts a wide enough audience to make inroads into competitive offers.  We had three examples right before us, each with an instructive lesson about consumer purchase behavior:

• The straightforward “pay now and recover as you shop” approach from B&N is sure to attract a self-selecting crowd, but does it shift share once the fee is earned back?
• Borders makes it easy for anyone to play, but numbs its membership with a repetitive cycle of discounts and sales that train customers to wait for the one they like best.
• Amazon builds on a low-price model with benefits like free shipping, but will share shift occur when these perks aren’t available?

Each of these strategies has its limitations and there is one common element missing from each program – Participation. My quick take on the Participatory Marketing value chain leads off with Awareness, creates Engagement, and leverages Word of Mouth and Viral effects to create Community and ultimately long term Loyalty.

I may not have these elements in just the right order and possibly abused some buzzwords, but its clear that each of the booksellers that were the talk of the evening needs to take a step beyond promotion and introduce mechanisms for customers to stay with them in between purchases and when the optimal deal is not front and center.

How do you buy books and from whom? Do any of these programs stand out for you, and why?